Lately we've been trying to do more date nights with one another, but it's not always easy...
Finding a babysitter is the challenge. I have a list of people I'll call to watch my kids when needed, first being grandparents, then if they're not available I'll go to my babysitter list. Usually if you book in advance it's not an issue, but last minute can be tricky.
I'd like to think that we pay babysitters a descent rate, although I'm not sure what the going rate is currently. If anyone has any suggestions, I'm all ears.
Regardless of pay, what gets me about sitters lately is there lack of professionalism. We've been using a couple different sitters lately and appreciate them very much, but I don't know if it's just me or what but these teenagers seem to have no manners. Listen to me sounding like an old lady, but seriously.
When I was a teen babysitting, I hope that I made polite conversation with the parents. I hope that I arrived on time. I really hope that I said "THANK YOU!" to the parents and didn't just zip out the door after getting paid, as if I were clocking out.
Does anyone else notice these things? I'm not sure if it's the generation or what but I am determined to teach my children proper manners.
I've compiled a list of things to do to become a parents 'Go-To Sitter':
1). Availability. If you’re never actually around to babysit, you’re probably not going to become someone’s regular babysitter. Of course you’re going to be busy, but what’s important is that you clearly communicate when you’re generally available and when you’re not.
2. Enthusiasm. “My favorite babysitters are the ones who say, ‘I’m exhausted, it’s a lot of work to keep up with your son.’ That tells me she played with him and did their best to keep up with our 3 yr old. Our kids know who plays with them most and gets more excited for the active babysitters to come over than the not so active ones.
3). Positive reviews (from the kids!). Moms are happy when their kids are happy. Yes, you’re there to make sure the house doesn’t burn down, but you’re also there to make sure the kids have a good time when their parents are away.
4. Manners. Show interest in not only our children but in holding a polite and adult conversation with us. Being able to communicate well with the parents shows them your manners — manners which they hope you’ll model for their kids. Plus, it lets parents know you’re comfortable discussing issues or concerns they (or you) may have.
5. Punctuality. Be there when you say you’ll be there. They’re counting on you. Running late? It happens. Make sure you call and let the parents know you’ll be late — and don’t make it a habit.
That's all for now, but please do share your 2cents! I'm all ears!
